Dating Tips

Questions to Ask Your GF — Dirty Edition

The right questions and conversation topics can be an effective way to get a woman in the mood. When it comes to arousal, females are different compared to males. Multiple studies have proved that guys are aroused by the visual; a naughty sight — and they’re good to go. Girls need to have some sort of story or context to get horny.

Some consider the female sexual response to be a mystery; thus, it’s great to have as much ammunition as possible. Using our questions, you can find out what your girl likes, dislikes, and fantasizes about. You might get pleasantly surprised to find out that your innocent girlfriend has some pretty daring dreams.

Playing the Sexual Questions Game

young couple having fun in a club

Feel free to choose from our extensive list of sexual questions. They are specifically designed to assist in figuring out the mystery of female arousal. Find your partner’s turn-ons and turn-offs by sprinkling one or two of these into a conversation. You can also suggest having a night dedicated entirely to her needs. She’ll love to see you care enough to ask!

  1. Did you enjoy your first time?
  2. What is one sexual fantasy you would love to have fulfilled?
  3. Are there any fantasies that turn you on?
  4. Have you ever had an orgasm in a dream?
  5. What was your latest sexual dream about?
  6. Before we started dating, did you ever masturbate thinking about me?
  7. Do you like it when I go down on you?
  8. Have you ever tried anal?
  9. How old were you when you lost your virginity, and would you do it again if you could go back?
  10. Do you like dirty talk?
  11. What do you like to be called in bed?
  12. Have you ever kissed or hooked up with another girl? If yes, how was it?
  13. Have you ever had a threesome with another girl?
  14. Have you ever had a threesome with two guys?
  15. When was the first time you had a one-night stand?
  16. How many of your previous hookups do you regret?
  17. Have you ever used any sex toys?
  18. Have you ever used a strap-on?
  19. When you masturbate, do you prefer to use your fingers or a toy?
  20. Do you find more pleasure from your clit or vagina?
  21. At what age did you first see a scene in a porn movie?
  22. Have you ever wanted to re-enact a scene you’ve seen in a porn movie?
  23. Has anyone ever walked in on you touching yourself?
  24. Have you ever sent another guy a naked picture of yourself?
  25. Do you like to hook up with the lights on or off?
  26. Have you ever masturbated thinking about a friend?
  27. Do you prefer to take charge in the bedroom or to be more submissive?
  28. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it?
  29. Have you ever tried tying a guy down?
  30. Have you ever been tied down by a guy?
  31. What’s the sexiest thing anyone has ever said to you?
  32. What part of a guy’s body do you find most arousing?
  33. Which celebrity would you cheat on me with?
  34. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
  35. Have you ever role-played?
  36. Have you ever worn a fetish outfit?
  37. Do you think men or women should initiate sex more often?
  38. Have you ever answered dirty questions before?
  39. Do you find getting a foot massage to be erotic?
  40. What are your favorite dirty books?
  41. What kind of sounds do you like to make in bed?
  42. Do you like cuddling after sex?
  43. Do you think that the perfect night includes sex?
  44. Have you ever had sex with a stranger you met via a dating app?
  45. How many dates are okay for you before you can have sex?
  46. What was the first time you made love like?
  47. What do you think is the difference between having sex and making love?
  48. What sexual questions would you like to ask me?
  49. Would you like to eat chocolate or whipped cream off my body?
  50. Have you ever played with candle wax in bed?

Sex Questions for Couples

man whispering dirty sex questions

Dirty sex questions will create a better bond and provide education and information on how to help you and your partner achieve orgasm. Questions are also a great way to assess compatibility. Get inspired and find out what your playmate likes with the questions mentioned below.

  1. What is your most erogenous zone? Do you feel like I pay enough attention to it during sex?
  2. Did you have sex with the first person you ever loved?
  3. Would you have preferred to start having sex later than you did?
  4. Do you like being on top?
  5. Do you like doggy style?
  6. What do you think about the 69 position?
  7. Would you feel comfortable doing a striptease?
  8. What was one sex position that you tried and would never go for again?
  9. Do you like quickies?
  10. What was one thing you tried in bed that was surprisingly good?
  11. Is there anything you’ve wanted to try with me?
  12. Have you ever tried role-playing?
  13. What is the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
  14. What is the dirtiest thing you’ve ever said?
  15. Did you have a crush on me before we started dating?
  16. Have you ever made the first move on a guy?
  17. Have you ever gone home with someone you met in a club?
  18. What do you consider to be your wild years?
  19. What do you think about sleeping with someone while being drunk? Is it always a bad idea?
  20. Are you into any porn stars?
  21. If you had a chance to sleep with any superhero or superheroine, who would it be?
  22. Do you think intelligence is sexy?
  23. What sexual things completely turn you off?
  24. Have you ever had sex in the backseat of a car?
  25. What position makes you reach orgasm fastest?
  26. What is the best sexual compliment you have ever received?
  27. What is your biggest sexual insecurity?
  28. Do you like biting or being bitten by your sex partners?
  29. Would you like it if I pulled on your hair a bit during sex?
  30. What body part would you like me to pay more attention to?
  31. Have I ever done anything that instantly killed your mood?
  32. Do you think make-up sex is a good way to resolve a fight?
  33. When did you first realize you were attracted to me?
  34. Have you ever tried skinny dipping?
  35. Have you ever had sex in a public place?
  36. Have you ever had sex with someone significantly older?
  37. What naughty questions would you want to ask me?
  38. How many times per week do you think it’s healthy to have sex?
  39. If you had a choice, would you rather never have sex or masturbate again?
  40. What’s your most embarrassing sex story?

Sexual Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

man asking sexual questions

Find out what turns your partner on, and your sex life will become better. The more direct approach will be beneficial in the long term, so don’t be shy to ask sexual questions. Instinct or guesswork can lead to incorrect conclusions, leading to an unsatisfactory hookup. Make sure to get to know your girlfriend well enough to arouse and satisfy her properly.

Below are some nice questions for your female partner.

  1. Is there one thing that always puts you in the mood?
  2. What time of the month do you feel you’re at your horniest?
  3. At what times do you not want to have sex?
  4. Have you ever had a relationship where you had sex every day?
  5. Do you like bubble baths?
  6. What do you think about going at it all night?
  7. Have you ever had sex with someone outdoors?
  8. Would you prefer to make love by the fire, or would you rather have wild sex in the limo?
  9. Have you ever used handcuffs in bed?
  10. Do you find men in uniform hot?
  11. Is there any outfit I wear that you think is hot?
  12. How do you feel about spanking?
  13. Have you ever had a naughty dream about me?
  14. Would you like it if I bought you lingerie?
  15. If you had to dress up to seduce me, what outfit would you wear?
  16. Is there any movie scene that doesn’t involve sex that you find sexy?
  17. Would you like to come over to my place and cook butt-naked?
  18. If we only had half an hour to spend together, what would you want us to do?
  19. If you could only have sex with one more person before you die, who would it be?
  20. Do you like it when guys lick you down there?
  21. What is one non-sexual thing that guys do that you find super hot?
  22. Is there any sexual outfit you would like to try on?
  23. When did you have your first orgasm?
  24. Have you ever improvised a sex toy out of something you found around the house?
  25. How would you rate your blowjob skills on a scale from 1-10?
  26. Do you like undressing or being undressed?
  27. Do you like it rough?
  28. Do you have a list of sexual things you would like to try in the bedroom?
  29. How long should foreplay be?
  30. Have you ever scratched a guy while having sex?
  31. Do you have a special pet name you like to be called during sex?
  32. Do you like guys who are vocal or silent during sex?
  33. Have you ever tried choking someone or getting choked during sex?
  34. What’s the most unconventional thing you’ve tried in bed?
  35. Have you ever had sex with more than one person?
  36. Have you ever sexted?
  37. Have you ever had phone sex?
  38. Have you ever had sex online?
  39. Do you like being watched when you masturbate?
  40. Have you ever used a blindfold or ball gag in bed?